The Golden Rules of FWB

Rule #1

Choose Someone You Actually Like

It's called "Friends" with Benefits for a reason. You should actually enjoy hanging out with them outside of the bedroom, even if it's just for a quick pizza.

Rule #2

Set Clear Boundaries

Are sleepovers allowed? Do you text every day? Are you exclusive? discussing these uncomfortable questions upfront prevents the "what are we?" talk later.

Rule #3

Use Protection

Since FWB arrangements are often non-exclusive, sexual health is paramount. Always use protection and get tested regularly. It's a sign of respect for your partner and yourself.

Rule #4

No Cuddling (Maybe)

Oxytocin is real. Cuddling releases bonding hormones. If you want to keep feelings out of it, keep the post-coital snuggles to a minimum.